Dignity Over Obligation

Dignity Over Obligation

I no longer believe in unnecessary meetings with people I do not want to meet, even if they are relatives. Meeting someone merely to satisfy their ego—when they do not respect my dignity and try to interfere in my personal life—has no value for me.

My life is my own.
I will decide whom to meet, when to meet, and where to meet.
This choice belongs to me, and I am now holding that control in my own hands. It does not matter whether they are relatives or anyone else.

I do not want to appear good in others’ eyes if it means appearing bad in my own. My own self matters more to me. The world is extremely practical—no one does anything without expecting something in return, whether it is money, favor, or ego satisfaction.

At least the business world is honest. Expectations are clear: what is to be given and what is to be received, and at what cost. Nothing comes without expectations. In contrast, the so-called “homely” world today is often a wolf in sheep’s skin. People pretend to be kind and selfless, but beneath the surface they can be worse than the corporate world.

Just like politicians, they hide their selfishness behind morality. If I observe human systems clearly, the hierarchy appears as follows:

• At the top: Kings or emperor-like mindsets—attack, defend, maintain order. Roles, responsibilities, rewards, and punishments are clearly defined.

• In the middle: Family and social relationships—hidden expectations, unspoken selfishness, emotional manipulation.

• At the bottom: Politics—people fighting for power in the name of serving common people. What an irony.

I do not expect honesty from politics, but I do expect dignity in personal relationships. When that dignity is not respected, distance becomes necessary.

Rented has risen sharply in Noida almost twice in last 2 years but the IT sector is struggling city has become a mere place of survival for most of the folks both husband and wife earning tries to meed both the ends of life.Why the mess we have created for ourself why we are rushing towards city like Noida as there is no job or source odf income in our home town.What i have thought of myself that i will build multiple small income channels in future like-Teaching,BDM,AI projects micro finance,agri etc.

I wants a life where i would be the core center of my own self even if i do help others i will do so without any return even if its a ego booster i dont wants that as a human we have certain responsibilities towards other.

I choose self-respect over social approval.
This is not selfishness.
This is clarity.